This review was made possible by iConnect and Luvs. I was provided compensation to facilitate this post, but all opinions stated are 100% mine.
Being a mom is a very rewarding, but difficult task. It is a 24/7 responsibility with highs and lows.
I am a mother of four beautiful children, ages 8, 8, 5, & 1, and have the blessing of being a stay at home mom or the CEO of my family, as some may say.
My workday doesn’t really have a beginning or an ending. Sick days rarely exist, and “vacation time” is taken in microscopic breaks when I turn my duties over to my husband and go hide in my room with the door locked, Netflix streaming, and my candy stash pulled out.
It is safe to say as a mom, what I love to do tends to get placed on the backburner at times…but after being a mom for eight years now, I am finding it doesn’t always have to be that way.
There are ways to do #Whatuluv and still meet the demands of those you love. Here are a few ways I have been able to implement a little me time while still playing tea time with my children:
Do a Kid-Swap with a Friend
I love doing kid-swaps with my friends. One day a week I watch my friends’ children for 2 to 3 hours and the next week she watches mine.
Having a couple hours alone a week really boosts my mood. I am able to do things that I normally can’t…like getting my hair done, taking an uninterrupted shower, or peacefully walking down the aisles at the grocery store in heavenly bliss.
Join a Gym with Childcare
Exercising has been one of my saving graces. It not only has helped me battle insanity, but it has helped me feel better about my self-image, and abilities as a mom.
When I take time to do self-care at the gym I am getting stronger, healthier, and happier. It helps me be more active with my kids and gives them a positive example to follow.
With childcare as an option, I know my kids are getting social experiences and being well cared for. If anything happens to them, or they need me, I am close by.
“Sleep When the Baby Sleeps”
This is advice that I have been given as a brand-new mom with each one of my babies. At first I was thinking that it would be time wasted. If the baby is sleeping, I should be doing everything else that I never get done while the baby is awake…you know, like laundry and dishes…but soon I realized that sleep was the best thing I could give myself because it was me time. Time I could take to relax and just breathe a little.
Now that my kids range in age from 8 to 1, “sleep when the baby sleeps” has become “take a break and enjoy ME time while they sleep or are in quiet time.”
Mom’s Night Out
Scheduling a moms night out every so often is a must! Being able to go out and do something fun with others who also need a break from life is so rewarding!
This is scheduled well in advance so that my husband will be prepared for the task ahead. While I am out without a curfew (lol!), my husband holds down the fort at home. When I come home from a night out, there are times “duty calls” immediately because my baby is hungry or my older kids are sick. I feel like I am playing tag-team wrestling at times, rescuing my husband from defeat.
One thing that I don’t have to worry about is coming home to a baby with soiled sheets because of leaks, thanks to Luvs Ultra Leakguard Diapers with NightLock Plus™. They are more absorbent than before and stay put with larger tabs for fastening.
Everyone balances their time differently, but these are just four ways I balance the “mom time and me time.” It may take some planning, but it is possible. What do you do to find time in your schedule? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments below.
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This review was made possible by iConnect and Luvs. I was provided compensation to facilitate this post, but all opinions stated are 100% mine.
Great thoughts Lila 🙂 baby kid isn’t quite mobile yet, so this was a good reminder to enjoy the down time while I have it! And how to budget my time when I don’t anymore! Also, I love luvs diapers. Haven’t tried this new kind yet, but I’m sure I will soon enough!
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is to take a nice long bath, and read my books and magazines. I will use the money to buy some new books!
For me: #WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is to read mystery books.
#WhatuLuv to do when I’m not in parent mode is play tennis with friends! I would spend this gift card on my grandsons and would buy them new, much-needed, socks!
If I win the prize I will get a manicure with it!
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is to go running outside!
id spend it on a manicure
What I love to do when I’m not in parent mode is read a book. If I won ghe gift card, I would take myself out to lunch and/or a movie. #WhatuLuv
#WhatuLuv I love a nice glass of wine! I won the giftcard I would spend it on bday gifts for my girl!
#WhatuLuv. I would use it for a Christmas gift
I love to go for walks when I am not in parent mode. I would buy a pair of running shoes with this gift card.
#WhatuLuv for me, when I’m not in parent mode, is gardening. I tell everyone it’s cheaper than therapy and better than the gym. If I won, I would use the money for stocking stuffers.
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is to binge watch my favorite shows. I would spend the gift card on holiday shopping.
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is to catch up on my Netflix!!
I will use the money to buy christmas presents!
#WhatuLuv I love to hike! Id spend the GC on groceries
I like to read without interruptions! #WhatuLuv I’d probably use it for last minute Christmas presents!
#WhatuLuv I love to scrapbook and would use the giftcard to buy more supplies.
I enjoy binge watching tv series on Netflix and reading.
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is relax and watch a romance or comedy movie. If I won, I’d use the gift card towards a treat for my family. Maybe a movie or something like that.
#WhatuLuv what I do while not in parent mode is workout at the gym and I would use gift card for something practical like gas or groceries.
I love to read, read, read! I will probably use my gift card to buy some more books!
When no in parent mode I love to do puzzles! I would definitely spend this on some new shoes or new bag for myself 🙂
I love to sit down and play on Facebook
I love to go to the movies when I’m not in parent mode so I probably would use the gift card to treat myself to a movie!
#WhatuLuv when I am not in parent mode is take a long walk, or read a good romance book! I would love to get some new romances to read this winter!
I have a hobby that I work on when I need a break. My hubby and I take turns with our three year old.
i would love for my kids
#Whatulove to do is catch up on my reading
I also plan on using the gift card for a date night -(dinner and a movie)
I would love to have a pedicure.
#WhatuLuv
I love to chill out with a glass of wine, I would buy a Christmas gift with the gift card.
#WhatuLuv to do when not in parent mode is take a nice hot shower and relax reading mystery books.
When I’m not in parent mode, I like to take a warm bubble bath with a good book
#WhatuLuv to do is just sit and catch up on blogs that I love and reading books!
#WhatuLuv to do is relax and catch up on my favorite shows. I would use the gift card for baby clothes.
When I’m not in parent mode, #WhatuLuv is get is a pedicure.
I love to do yoga when I’m not in parent mode #WhatULuv
I would buy a bottle of wine with the gift card.
I LOVE A GOOD SPA AND SHOPPING DAY.
#WhatuLuv When I am not in the parent mode I am usually reading or baking. I would use the card for Christmas gifts.
#WhatuLuv to do when I’m not in parent mode is to get a book and read for a couple hours and if I get very lucky to win this amazing giveaway, I would buy some school supplies for my children. Thanks for the chance.